Have you ever told someone the reason you were upset with them only to have them say "and it took you 5 hours to tell me that?" Well that is exactly what happened to me today. Instead of "I'm sorry" or "Well here is why I did that" I received "and it took you 5 hours to me that?" Well yes it did take me 5 hours because I was so mad and on top of it you did something else. I wanted to make peace and talk it out and that is the response I get? Well then 2 can play at this game.

I am starting to see why I was single for so long. I am not good with conflict. I am not good at expressing myself. It takes me a while to come up with what I want to say so that it doesn't come off bad. Guess what - this is a perfect example of what I mean.